While it may have seemed the media coverage was 'over the top' to say the least, nevertheless, for the most part, all of New York and its 5 boroughs came out 'on top'! Something like only five deaths, while all the evacuees made it out safely. Pictures of streets with only boats for transportation were mind boggling, and walking the dogs in the heart of the upper west side for several blocks and seeing only 2 other people outside was also jaw dropping.
Of course the excitement during the prelude was kinda fun. Seeing Gracious Home, a very elite kind of home goods store, hawking D batteries with employees shouting "Get your disaster relief right here" was comically disconcerting. And the hunt for jugs of water and chinese food for takeout after most stores and restaurants were closed, was also a unique experience for New Yorkers. Of course, somehow a good number of Bars did manage to stay open.
I had a good friend from Florida, Melody, arriving here last Tuesday landing at 2pm. I guess hers was the first phone to ring when I called to tell her she would be stepping off the plane into an earthquake!! Most of Manhattan and its environs had been rumbling for about an hour, with most people totally unaware of what was causing their desks to shake and their pictures to fall off the wall. The news stand fella right up the block said everything in his kiosk had simply started dropping and making a mess. Who would have thunk???
So now that things are quiet (at least for the moment...there is some mention of tornadoes yet to come), I am really left wondering "WHAT IS IT ALL ABOUT?"
Certainly the Good Lord is trying to tell us SOMETHING...but what is it we can decipher from it all because you know the answer can not just be something obvious such as global warming. I think we need to look deeper than that.
Maybe Mother Nature is telling us that we are 'moving too fast' in every possible way--thus creating absolute chaos? Are we simply out of control? Is this a response to our crazed way of governing along with the volitility that surrounds us beginning with the family, as well as the new morality (or lack thereof) that now prevails? Has technology filtered into and confused the atmosphere with sooo much that nature is responding with an extremely loud and passionate "STOP!!!!"
Being amongst the seniors dwelling within, I don't think I'm alone in feeling that so many of my counterparts would like to yell the same kind of thing not infrequently. Maybe instead, we should 'Thank the Good Lord' for literally 'shaking us up' (at least here in the biggest apple of them all), and splashing our faces with the word "STOP"!! Then maybe we can take some time to think about where we are at, and how we can best find some new and quieter, while nevertheless creative, means for navigating our lives. Think about it...
Hope you enjoyed this session and are safe and sound with your power on to have been able to read this.
Respectfully,
Mimi Scott, Ph.D
212 721-2979
917 846-2449
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Sunday, July 10, 2011
UNREASONABLE DOUBT!
I actually wouldn't feel ok with myself if I didn't try to do my part over the horrendous injustice that was done to two year old Caley Anthony. A while back I wrote a play called "Mind Tricks" which set out to prove that the protagonist was a psychopath. At the time I learned that there were proven characteristics of a psychopath set down by a gentleman named Robert Hare. Not recalling all of them, I can tell you that the lack of a conscience, the lack of remorse, and being a pathological liar stood out in Mr. Hare's list as much as they did in the profile that Casey Anthony projected during her recent trial for the murder of her daughter.
My jaw hung at the 'not guilty verdict' as I'm certain did most people's who had followed this trial on a daily basis. "Shocked" and "stunned" do not do justice to the reaction to this verdict. Personally I felt that the Prosecuting attorneys were excellent. For me Mr. Ashton tied Casey's every move during those 31 days to exactly what took place. But the jury obviously found legal loopholes to justify their decision. At first I thought the Defense was the worst ever as it was so obvious for people to see through what they were doing. However as the days went by I realized that the extremely far fetched 'red herrings' they kept providing were indeed doing the job to 'confuse' the jurors. It was, in the end, a briliant defense as 'incredible' as it was. I therefore learned that without an extremely intelligent and educated jury panel who are well versed in human behavior, this injustice can become possible. Sadly none of the jurors who did indeed decide to publicly defend their position came across as having these qualities.
However, for most of us watching, according to current statistics,there was no way on earth there was any 'doubt' at all as to who had committed this heinous crime. As a result I believe we must review and make changes to our current 'Trial by Jury' system.
First I think the 'voir dire' process should be reviewed, and there should be certain intelligence standards that those who 'will stand in judgement' must meet. My next suggestion is that a new choice should be added to the instructions to the jurors called "Un-reasonable Doubt". This would fall between 'certainty' or 'guilty' according to the evidence provided, and 'reasonable doubt' which says there is simply not enough evidence to 'prove' that the guilt is there. 'Un-reasonable doubt' would say that: "while I understand there is no absolute proof shown me during this trial, my reasoning still tells me that it must have been this defendant who committed this crime. Reason overules my doubt."
The additions of truly qualified jurors and "Un-reasonable Doubt" would not seem impossible to incorporate. Let me know how you feel and what steps one would take next in order to succeed in making these additions to the current system.
Thanks for reading...look forward to your responses.
Mimi Scott, Ph.D
212 721-2979
917 846-2449
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.com
My jaw hung at the 'not guilty verdict' as I'm certain did most people's who had followed this trial on a daily basis. "Shocked" and "stunned" do not do justice to the reaction to this verdict. Personally I felt that the Prosecuting attorneys were excellent. For me Mr. Ashton tied Casey's every move during those 31 days to exactly what took place. But the jury obviously found legal loopholes to justify their decision. At first I thought the Defense was the worst ever as it was so obvious for people to see through what they were doing. However as the days went by I realized that the extremely far fetched 'red herrings' they kept providing were indeed doing the job to 'confuse' the jurors. It was, in the end, a briliant defense as 'incredible' as it was. I therefore learned that without an extremely intelligent and educated jury panel who are well versed in human behavior, this injustice can become possible. Sadly none of the jurors who did indeed decide to publicly defend their position came across as having these qualities.
However, for most of us watching, according to current statistics,there was no way on earth there was any 'doubt' at all as to who had committed this heinous crime. As a result I believe we must review and make changes to our current 'Trial by Jury' system.
First I think the 'voir dire' process should be reviewed, and there should be certain intelligence standards that those who 'will stand in judgement' must meet. My next suggestion is that a new choice should be added to the instructions to the jurors called "Un-reasonable Doubt". This would fall between 'certainty' or 'guilty' according to the evidence provided, and 'reasonable doubt' which says there is simply not enough evidence to 'prove' that the guilt is there. 'Un-reasonable doubt' would say that: "while I understand there is no absolute proof shown me during this trial, my reasoning still tells me that it must have been this defendant who committed this crime. Reason overules my doubt."
The additions of truly qualified jurors and "Un-reasonable Doubt" would not seem impossible to incorporate. Let me know how you feel and what steps one would take next in order to succeed in making these additions to the current system.
Thanks for reading...look forward to your responses.
Mimi Scott, Ph.D
212 721-2979
917 846-2449
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.com
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Vendor Wars..My Life on the Street
Of course I learned many things from my experience on the streets of New York selling my Art and its by products. First of all Vendors are very territorial...don't try to take up their space even if they are nowhere in sight...it is reason for them to kill! I was very careful not to offend anyone, espcially my friend who had shown me how to get started and who was virtually at war with another lady who sold the same hats and jewelry. Secondly, do not consider selling in front of your building, even if your display is so much classier than the typical hats and jewelry. (Especially if your building is one of the classiest in New York). They do not want you to spoil the peace and quiet of the street. And you might not want to heed, as an older person, the warning to stay out of the heat. The one day I did, I found a kid selling lemonade in my spot.
After three moves I had wound up right in front of the phenomenal all glass Apple Store. I reduced from two to one table and got rid of the clothestree and aas a result I got many compliments on how beautiful my display was. I also wound up friendly with all the many security guards and cops in the neighborhood. They constantly check to see your Certificate of Authority which of course I had gotten and which was plainly displayed. But I got to know them through other means as well. I found out that you do not lean any of your paintings or products against government property. I had a tendency to dress up the yellow pole behind my table with a painted hat, shirt and sometimes even an apron. But if you place anything against the booth used for parking payments, believe it or not it triggers something that calls the police to come. (I met the handsomest cop in khakis and a blue shirt with a gorgeous metal badge that way),
Of course I was never given anything but smiles, but several of my vending friends were cuffed and brought into police wagons with me arguing with them that this "was a wonderful person who should not be arrested!". They did not listen to me, but the vendors who were on the street again the next morning, or in one case that same night, gave me some nice gifts--I got a beautiful card case for $5.00.
And as always---my dogs upstaged me and my art. People would head for them in their cart immediately, and about 1000 pictures of them were taken. One time there were a circle of about 10 people around the dogs for a good ten minutes when I mentioned to them that I had "some art here if they were interested". They laughed and just marched on. And there was the time Lucie, who hates skaters and scooters and anything that rides by like that, climbed out of the cart and tore up Broadway dragging Lorilu in the cart with her after one such skater. All of those outside the Apple store (and there are always those inside and outside that store no matter what the hour) were on their knees laughing so hard they couldn't straighten up. And as always,I attracted all the nuts in New York.
One was a very handsome, obviously cultured black man with a wonderful radio voice,who had great things to say about the clarity and fantasy qualities of my work. He explained that he had simply 'chosen' to live outside.
Then there was the Jewish ticket 'scalper' from the Bronx and Queens who could talk faster than anyone I'd ever known, who told me about all the warrants he had gotten from cops who invaded his home all the time. He claimed he never got arrested, and that he could give me tickets "cheap' for any Broadway show anytime.
And there were so many terrific people I talked to every day. Somehow they detected the therapist in me and told me their life stories immediately. The biggest topic of discussion however always was the dogs. Everyone always wants to know their age, and breed right away and somehow we both wind up talking about our dogs and how much they mean to us. That's how I made friends with several women my age who are also living alone with their precious pooches. I also found a few people who had also had knee replacements and we shared our scars with each other
But, believe it or not, it was the art that reallly made me feel good out there. People did take to the coasters, the trivets, the cutting board, the mousepads, the clock, the trays and the calendars right away. They also bought the painted shirts I was wearing, the hats, and the little pocketbooks for the kids. A painted apron or two sold as well. I had not wanted to part with the original canvasses I had hanging in my apartment so I had made prints, but it was all the items that turned out to be the 'stars'. Now I have jewelry and key chains with charms of my canvasses and I wear them everyday. People claim to love them.
The outcome is that the place where I had all my pieces made up is far more expensive then anyone on the street is willing to pay. It is a losing proposition. However...it has all pointed me in the direction of making up a great brochure, etc and trying to market these products to stores, companies, wherever. If you have any ideas I'm appreciative. My friend Paula was a marvelous help to me with all this and I call her my 'Project Manager'. In case you were not one of the many friends on this list who found me on the street and made a purchase for which I am eternally grateful, we will be posting these items online one way or another very soon.
This week I move from my one bedroom to a two bedroom in the same building. It took forever for me to find out that my building had approved me. If they hadn't I told them I was going to set up my table directly across from the entrance, with all my stuff including blankets, newspapers and the doggie beds and proceed to
call the NY Post!!
It's been a great experience and of course I'll be writing a show about it all.
Can't you just see a great tap number with all the different vendors??
Hope you enjoyed this session on attempting business outside.
Respectfull,
Mimi Scott, Ph.D
212 721-2979
917 846-2449
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.com
After three moves I had wound up right in front of the phenomenal all glass Apple Store. I reduced from two to one table and got rid of the clothestree and aas a result I got many compliments on how beautiful my display was. I also wound up friendly with all the many security guards and cops in the neighborhood. They constantly check to see your Certificate of Authority which of course I had gotten and which was plainly displayed. But I got to know them through other means as well. I found out that you do not lean any of your paintings or products against government property. I had a tendency to dress up the yellow pole behind my table with a painted hat, shirt and sometimes even an apron. But if you place anything against the booth used for parking payments, believe it or not it triggers something that calls the police to come. (I met the handsomest cop in khakis and a blue shirt with a gorgeous metal badge that way),
Of course I was never given anything but smiles, but several of my vending friends were cuffed and brought into police wagons with me arguing with them that this "was a wonderful person who should not be arrested!". They did not listen to me, but the vendors who were on the street again the next morning, or in one case that same night, gave me some nice gifts--I got a beautiful card case for $5.00.
And as always---my dogs upstaged me and my art. People would head for them in their cart immediately, and about 1000 pictures of them were taken. One time there were a circle of about 10 people around the dogs for a good ten minutes when I mentioned to them that I had "some art here if they were interested". They laughed and just marched on. And there was the time Lucie, who hates skaters and scooters and anything that rides by like that, climbed out of the cart and tore up Broadway dragging Lorilu in the cart with her after one such skater. All of those outside the Apple store (and there are always those inside and outside that store no matter what the hour) were on their knees laughing so hard they couldn't straighten up. And as always,I attracted all the nuts in New York.
One was a very handsome, obviously cultured black man with a wonderful radio voice,who had great things to say about the clarity and fantasy qualities of my work. He explained that he had simply 'chosen' to live outside.
Then there was the Jewish ticket 'scalper' from the Bronx and Queens who could talk faster than anyone I'd ever known, who told me about all the warrants he had gotten from cops who invaded his home all the time. He claimed he never got arrested, and that he could give me tickets "cheap' for any Broadway show anytime.
And there were so many terrific people I talked to every day. Somehow they detected the therapist in me and told me their life stories immediately. The biggest topic of discussion however always was the dogs. Everyone always wants to know their age, and breed right away and somehow we both wind up talking about our dogs and how much they mean to us. That's how I made friends with several women my age who are also living alone with their precious pooches. I also found a few people who had also had knee replacements and we shared our scars with each other
But, believe it or not, it was the art that reallly made me feel good out there. People did take to the coasters, the trivets, the cutting board, the mousepads, the clock, the trays and the calendars right away. They also bought the painted shirts I was wearing, the hats, and the little pocketbooks for the kids. A painted apron or two sold as well. I had not wanted to part with the original canvasses I had hanging in my apartment so I had made prints, but it was all the items that turned out to be the 'stars'. Now I have jewelry and key chains with charms of my canvasses and I wear them everyday. People claim to love them.
The outcome is that the place where I had all my pieces made up is far more expensive then anyone on the street is willing to pay. It is a losing proposition. However...it has all pointed me in the direction of making up a great brochure, etc and trying to market these products to stores, companies, wherever. If you have any ideas I'm appreciative. My friend Paula was a marvelous help to me with all this and I call her my 'Project Manager'. In case you were not one of the many friends on this list who found me on the street and made a purchase for which I am eternally grateful, we will be posting these items online one way or another very soon.
This week I move from my one bedroom to a two bedroom in the same building. It took forever for me to find out that my building had approved me. If they hadn't I told them I was going to set up my table directly across from the entrance, with all my stuff including blankets, newspapers and the doggie beds and proceed to
call the NY Post!!
It's been a great experience and of course I'll be writing a show about it all.
Can't you just see a great tap number with all the different vendors??
Hope you enjoyed this session on attempting business outside.
Respectfull,
Mimi Scott, Ph.D
212 721-2979
917 846-2449
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.com
Sunday, May 8, 2011
GOD'S LATEST BLESSING...
I have an announcement!!! No I'm not pregnant, and no I'm not getting married (but if someone may be interested....). NO,BUT I AM GOING INTO BUSINESS!! As of May
20th I can be found basically in front of my building---1965 Broadway, between 66th and 67th on the west side of Broadway, SELLING MY ART!! I have been given a license to do so by the state of New York and I will be selling framed prints of all the originals I have hanging on my walls in my apartment as well as mouse pads, coasters and calendars of my art. Along with this I have painted a number of tee shirts, blouses, pocketbooks, hats and some lovely aprons. I'm sure there is something for everyone! And I am inviting anyone who is reading this to come visit me there...even if you live in Florida, California or wherever...make the trip. It will be fun just to see you!
Now for the reason this fits into my "sessions". I have enjoyed an extremely full life. Indeed I wrote a memoir called 'DOIN WHAT CAME NATUR'LLY, THE MERRY,MADCAP AND MOXIE MEMOIRS OF MIMI SCOTT. Several of you have read it. I was and always have been blessed with a great family and with the world of theatre, film and tv. Then I turned 70...things quieted down. I moved back to New York from Florida...but...I had one physical problem after another. A knee that I had enjoyed having all those years decided it was not happy and wanted to be replaced. So now I have a new knee. But prior to this replacement I wasn't moving as I had all those years and my energy was simply not the same...actually it began while I was in
Florida. I became depressed. Someone suggested I go to do pottery with her. I realized that minute that I had always wanted to paint. The next day I had the easel, the paints, the canvasses and the brushes. I have been doing it ever since. It has brought me hours of peace and happiness. Now, while New York remains as busy as this city will always be, I will once again be participating---I will be a street vendor. Whether it sells out in a day, or I sit there for two months without anyone buying anything...I will be once again among the participants of the greatest city in the world----New York!
My point is---never give up. The lights in everyone's life go out from time to time, and sometimes it's necessary to just sit back and do nothing. That's ok. Because out of that 'nothing' always comes 'something'. I may not be on the stage for awhile (most likely forever), but I'm writing and I'm painting (and I do have a little show I wrote for those in assisted living facilities to enjoy that I am hoping to start taking around), so I'm doing all right! And so will all of you when the 'light goes on again' if you've been spending some time in the dark. God does indeed work in 'strange ways'
Now...if Mr.Right were to come along...
Thanks for reading. Hope you enjoyed my session, and please do come see me at
MIMI'S ARTISTIC MAGIC on Broadway when you get to the City.
Mimi Scott, Ph.D
212 721-2979
917 846-2449
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.com
20th I can be found basically in front of my building---1965 Broadway, between 66th and 67th on the west side of Broadway, SELLING MY ART!! I have been given a license to do so by the state of New York and I will be selling framed prints of all the originals I have hanging on my walls in my apartment as well as mouse pads, coasters and calendars of my art. Along with this I have painted a number of tee shirts, blouses, pocketbooks, hats and some lovely aprons. I'm sure there is something for everyone! And I am inviting anyone who is reading this to come visit me there...even if you live in Florida, California or wherever...make the trip. It will be fun just to see you!
Now for the reason this fits into my "sessions". I have enjoyed an extremely full life. Indeed I wrote a memoir called 'DOIN WHAT CAME NATUR'LLY, THE MERRY,MADCAP AND MOXIE MEMOIRS OF MIMI SCOTT. Several of you have read it. I was and always have been blessed with a great family and with the world of theatre, film and tv. Then I turned 70...things quieted down. I moved back to New York from Florida...but...I had one physical problem after another. A knee that I had enjoyed having all those years decided it was not happy and wanted to be replaced. So now I have a new knee. But prior to this replacement I wasn't moving as I had all those years and my energy was simply not the same...actually it began while I was in
Florida. I became depressed. Someone suggested I go to do pottery with her. I realized that minute that I had always wanted to paint. The next day I had the easel, the paints, the canvasses and the brushes. I have been doing it ever since. It has brought me hours of peace and happiness. Now, while New York remains as busy as this city will always be, I will once again be participating---I will be a street vendor. Whether it sells out in a day, or I sit there for two months without anyone buying anything...I will be once again among the participants of the greatest city in the world----New York!
My point is---never give up. The lights in everyone's life go out from time to time, and sometimes it's necessary to just sit back and do nothing. That's ok. Because out of that 'nothing' always comes 'something'. I may not be on the stage for awhile (most likely forever), but I'm writing and I'm painting (and I do have a little show I wrote for those in assisted living facilities to enjoy that I am hoping to start taking around), so I'm doing all right! And so will all of you when the 'light goes on again' if you've been spending some time in the dark. God does indeed work in 'strange ways'
Now...if Mr.Right were to come along...
Thanks for reading. Hope you enjoyed my session, and please do come see me at
MIMI'S ARTISTIC MAGIC on Broadway when you get to the City.
Mimi Scott, Ph.D
212 721-2979
917 846-2449
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.com
Sunday, April 17, 2011
let's play CELEBRITY CONGRESS
With it sounding like a real possibility that Trump may run for President, it struck me what would be unique to him that may just work to stabilize things.
He could choose, let's say five members of each party (forget the Tea Party please) and assign them a task...perhaps to find a way to lower the gas prices. They would then each find an arena to promote their thoughts. Of course there woulld be a Project Manager from each party to create and develop the promotional arena in which to 'fight their fight' before the public.
Then what would be voted upon by the public in attendance, would be which team made the most sense and was the most convincing. In fact in true American Idol fashion, the whole thing could be televised and the public could be asked to text or call in to vote for the team of their choice....maybe Ryan Seacrest could be solicited to host this part.
They would then all gather in Congress, and before the President they could all analyse who behaved and who did not in the process of selling their ideas. Here is where there could be a real 'clearing of the air', with the President awarding the winning team beautiful ribbons to wear around their necks throughout the congressional season.
Further on Trump, I saw what I thought was real, but what must have been a fake, haircutting on TV of The Donald which left him bald. He actually looked strong, commanding and great. I'm sure there must have been a bald leader since the King of Siam in The Kind and I, but I could not think of who it was. You'll probably know.
Finally, whomever was the best Project Manager would get to run for his/her party for the next election.
Just some thoughts....thanks for listening.
Mimi Scott, Ph.d
212 721-2979
917 846-2449
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.com
He could choose, let's say five members of each party (forget the Tea Party please) and assign them a task...perhaps to find a way to lower the gas prices. They would then each find an arena to promote their thoughts. Of course there woulld be a Project Manager from each party to create and develop the promotional arena in which to 'fight their fight' before the public.
Then what would be voted upon by the public in attendance, would be which team made the most sense and was the most convincing. In fact in true American Idol fashion, the whole thing could be televised and the public could be asked to text or call in to vote for the team of their choice....maybe Ryan Seacrest could be solicited to host this part.
They would then all gather in Congress, and before the President they could all analyse who behaved and who did not in the process of selling their ideas. Here is where there could be a real 'clearing of the air', with the President awarding the winning team beautiful ribbons to wear around their necks throughout the congressional season.
Further on Trump, I saw what I thought was real, but what must have been a fake, haircutting on TV of The Donald which left him bald. He actually looked strong, commanding and great. I'm sure there must have been a bald leader since the King of Siam in The Kind and I, but I could not think of who it was. You'll probably know.
Finally, whomever was the best Project Manager would get to run for his/her party for the next election.
Just some thoughts....thanks for listening.
Mimi Scott, Ph.d
212 721-2979
917 846-2449
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.com
Saturday, March 26, 2011
GOING HOME!!
By the time most of you receive and read this I shall have returned to my beloved NYC apartment following the 'The Big Cut' other wise known as my knee replacement. Ahhhhhh, there is so much to take from every experience...
The most important thing I learned from this one, is to never go 'under the knife' in any way shape or form unless a beloved family member, friend or hired aide is going to be with you 24/7 for quite some time. Hospitals are there to assist with whatever is needed in the OR, to carefully tend to the patient's vitals and medicinal needs directly following surgery, and then to bring the patient to a room.....AFTER THAT....FUHGETTABOUTIT!!
When you do not need help and really can benefit from sleep, they are there...every 10 minutes! When you do need help (to perhaps go to the bathroom) they don't know from you! You could wind up sitting on a bed pan forever before anyone answers the little cord you pulled. They have their own schedule to which they are trained to adhere, and you could be lying on the floor bleeding to death and they would step right over you in order to get the lunch meals out on schedule!
Our health care system appears to have taken everything into the equation but the PATIENT! They have to do what they have to do, and don't you, Mr. or Madam patient, get in the way!! This is why everyone taking a bed out should have an advocate. Maybe that way you won't have to wait till your pain is, on a scale from 1-10, a 20, before receiving your pain medications.
Just a note about medicines. I have 3 computerized pages of my medical history as well as everything I regularly ingest, both medicinal and herbal. Every doctor, either in an office, or in the hospital has always mentioned how good an idea that is to do. I always thought so, until on this recent trip I realized that there is absolutely no communication between the doctors, the nurses, and the pain medicine or pill people. On the rare occasion that they do seem to be on a wave length, the problem will then be that the medicine they ordered, (which you, of course, have plenty of in your own home), has not yet arrived from the pharmacy!!
And the nursing home/rehab care is about the same, only there, the food at least matches what you ordered...it may be inedible, but it matches. In the hospital it became a game to see how far from what was ordered the end result was. And pain does not help the PT process. Your advocate (and I had a great one named Leah!) needs to make sure that the painkiller is taken prior to the therapay. Most often the PT person would arrive and the painkiller had not been given so the therapy would be unbearable. Or, on the occasion when the painkiller had been given and you are 'rarin to go', the PT person is nowhere to be found!
Point is, New York doctors are indeed among the best, but our healthcare here is in the toilet! Could we not try to pay these people (who indeed are still attempting to do God's work) so that there is some compatibility between the two areas of medicine?
Hope today's session was somewhat enlightening. Owwwww! My knee hurts!!!!!
Mimi Scott, Ph.D
917 846-2449
212 721-2979
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.com
The most important thing I learned from this one, is to never go 'under the knife' in any way shape or form unless a beloved family member, friend or hired aide is going to be with you 24/7 for quite some time. Hospitals are there to assist with whatever is needed in the OR, to carefully tend to the patient's vitals and medicinal needs directly following surgery, and then to bring the patient to a room.....AFTER THAT....FUHGETTABOUTIT!!
When you do not need help and really can benefit from sleep, they are there...every 10 minutes! When you do need help (to perhaps go to the bathroom) they don't know from you! You could wind up sitting on a bed pan forever before anyone answers the little cord you pulled. They have their own schedule to which they are trained to adhere, and you could be lying on the floor bleeding to death and they would step right over you in order to get the lunch meals out on schedule!
Our health care system appears to have taken everything into the equation but the PATIENT! They have to do what they have to do, and don't you, Mr. or Madam patient, get in the way!! This is why everyone taking a bed out should have an advocate. Maybe that way you won't have to wait till your pain is, on a scale from 1-10, a 20, before receiving your pain medications.
Just a note about medicines. I have 3 computerized pages of my medical history as well as everything I regularly ingest, both medicinal and herbal. Every doctor, either in an office, or in the hospital has always mentioned how good an idea that is to do. I always thought so, until on this recent trip I realized that there is absolutely no communication between the doctors, the nurses, and the pain medicine or pill people. On the rare occasion that they do seem to be on a wave length, the problem will then be that the medicine they ordered, (which you, of course, have plenty of in your own home), has not yet arrived from the pharmacy!!
And the nursing home/rehab care is about the same, only there, the food at least matches what you ordered...it may be inedible, but it matches. In the hospital it became a game to see how far from what was ordered the end result was. And pain does not help the PT process. Your advocate (and I had a great one named Leah!) needs to make sure that the painkiller is taken prior to the therapay. Most often the PT person would arrive and the painkiller had not been given so the therapy would be unbearable. Or, on the occasion when the painkiller had been given and you are 'rarin to go', the PT person is nowhere to be found!
Point is, New York doctors are indeed among the best, but our healthcare here is in the toilet! Could we not try to pay these people (who indeed are still attempting to do God's work) so that there is some compatibility between the two areas of medicine?
Hope today's session was somewhat enlightening. Owwwww! My knee hurts!!!!!
Mimi Scott, Ph.D
917 846-2449
212 721-2979
mscott13@aol.com
www.drmimiscott.com
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
PREPARING FOR THE BIG CUT..
Something will be CUT out this Thursday (HAPPY ST. PATRICK'S DAY)...but it will be REPLACED! I'll be saying good bye to the knee I've been walking around with these past 70 years (well, I haven't really been walking around with it these past several months). BUT, I'll be greeting a new one (don't ask me if it is a gel one, I haven't found out yet). Of course I'll be moving around like a robot (you wouldn't believe all the equipment you go home with!), but a PT person will be around several times a day for a few weeks and then I can go to a local PT place. A nurse too will be visiting me repeatedly.
I'm having it cut out, otherwise known as 'surgically removed', at the Hospital for Joint Diseases on the corner of 17th and 2nd here in NYC. Dr. Joe Bosco (actually from Albany) will be doing the destruction and construction. The only thing I'm worried about is Lucie...I don't want her to miss me too much (I lost one dog of a broken heart, Coconut, when Kramer died. I don't want Lucie's heart to break when I go out the door. I'll have to talk to her on the phone so she knows I'm alive. Lorilu lives in another planet so she won't even notice I'm gone.).
So right now I'm ready to prepare, but I have to wait until they call me with the details tomorrow evening. I don't even know if I'm supposed to bring a night gown or pajamas. I can't imagine a pajama bottom getting over the knee, so I would think in terms of night gowns, but they will probably wind up being the stunning 'gowns' that the hospital gives you. I will bring my makeup however---I don't want to scare any visitors or even hospital personel. And I will bring my brush. Are any of you out there of a 'certain age' experiencing hair problems? When I wake
up mornings you do not want to be there. I look like I just stepped on an electrical plug! You know---the Albert Einstein look. It's terrible. So, the brush will definitely come. And the tooth brush as well as tooth paste. What do you think about slippers? I wear my open sneaks as my slippers....I think that's what I'll bring. But I can't go home in a night gown! What should I take to go home...I'm so fat already from not being able to move around as I always did, that I don't think I have a pair of sweat pants to fit. Guess I'll have to get a men's large to wear home.
Other than that, I have my dear little Jenny staying with the pups, (she cleans for me as well, so the apartment will look terrific when I return), and my dear friend from early theatre days, Justine, staying right beside me. She's a counselor, so she can calm me down periodically when I 'freak out'.
Thanks for listening---hope you have a great St Patrick's day---you know what I'll be doing to celebrate....can you drink with vicodin??
Love y'all...Hope you enjoyed my session.
Mimi---you know the doctor thing.
917 846-2449
I'm having it cut out, otherwise known as 'surgically removed', at the Hospital for Joint Diseases on the corner of 17th and 2nd here in NYC. Dr. Joe Bosco (actually from Albany) will be doing the destruction and construction. The only thing I'm worried about is Lucie...I don't want her to miss me too much (I lost one dog of a broken heart, Coconut, when Kramer died. I don't want Lucie's heart to break when I go out the door. I'll have to talk to her on the phone so she knows I'm alive. Lorilu lives in another planet so she won't even notice I'm gone.).
So right now I'm ready to prepare, but I have to wait until they call me with the details tomorrow evening. I don't even know if I'm supposed to bring a night gown or pajamas. I can't imagine a pajama bottom getting over the knee, so I would think in terms of night gowns, but they will probably wind up being the stunning 'gowns' that the hospital gives you. I will bring my makeup however---I don't want to scare any visitors or even hospital personel. And I will bring my brush. Are any of you out there of a 'certain age' experiencing hair problems? When I wake
up mornings you do not want to be there. I look like I just stepped on an electrical plug! You know---the Albert Einstein look. It's terrible. So, the brush will definitely come. And the tooth brush as well as tooth paste. What do you think about slippers? I wear my open sneaks as my slippers....I think that's what I'll bring. But I can't go home in a night gown! What should I take to go home...I'm so fat already from not being able to move around as I always did, that I don't think I have a pair of sweat pants to fit. Guess I'll have to get a men's large to wear home.
Other than that, I have my dear little Jenny staying with the pups, (she cleans for me as well, so the apartment will look terrific when I return), and my dear friend from early theatre days, Justine, staying right beside me. She's a counselor, so she can calm me down periodically when I 'freak out'.
Thanks for listening---hope you have a great St Patrick's day---you know what I'll be doing to celebrate....can you drink with vicodin??
Love y'all...Hope you enjoyed my session.
Mimi---you know the doctor thing.
917 846-2449
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